The Truth About New Beginnings and How Transition Can Make or Break You

Spring is a time of new beginnings

New Beginnings

Spring comes early in North Carolina. For weeks now we’ve been saying, “Spring is in the air.” According to the calendar it’s officially here as of today but my sinuses don’t need the reminder. Allergies seem to ride the coattails of seasonal transition.

We equate spring with new beginnings and why wouldn’t we after a long, cold winter? Trees bloom, birds sing like they’re rehearsing for a spring musical and the air swells with hope (and pollen. LOTS of pollen. ACHOO!) We live for new beginnings but with every new beginning we have to live through a pesky period of transition.

 

Change is easy. It’s the transition that’s hard. Click To Tweet

 

Transition is a bridge. You want to make it as smooth as possible.

The truth about new beginnings

 

New beginnings start out just like springtime, all daffodils and dogwoods: an exciting promotion at work, the thrill of a new baby, a new house in a nicer neighborhood. Emotions are high and the future is bright.

And then you begin to go through transition:

Learning the ropes of the new position is harder than you thought and your colleagues are resentful. The boss is piling on the overtime.

You’ve got post-partum, the house is a wreck and you totally underestimated the exhaustion from middle of the night feedings.

The mountain of moving boxes feels insurmountable, the dog ran away and you start to wonder what you ever saw in this house.

The excitement of the “new” quickly gives way to discouragement and feelings of inadequacy. Will I ever get the hang of this? Will I ever feel normal again? Will this house ever be home?

 

Will anything ever change?

Four things that make transition difficult:

 

  1. Not wanting to leave the past behind
  2. Living for the future
  3. Feeling like you’re all alone
  4. Believing you have inadequate resources

 

Remember when you learned how to write transition sentences in middle school? How hard it was at first but got easier with practice? The goal was to make the progression from one paragraph to the next as smooth as possible. Sounds like a pretty good life goal, too. Let’s think about how to smooth out your transition. (That was a transition sentence, by the way.)

 

4 steps to a smooth transition

 

1. Let go.

As much as I love winter, at some point I have to pack away my boots and pull out the sandals. In order to embrace the new we have to let go of the old. There may be relationships you have to let go of. Ask the Holy Spirit for wisdom to know who those people are and for the grace and strength to obey.

You might need to let go of some baggage, too. New beginnings are great but remember, we bring ourselves with us. A change of scenery won’t remedy a wounded heart. Ask the Lord to help you:  “… let go of every wound that has pierced us and the sin we so easily fall into. Then we will be able to run life’s marathon race with passion and determination, for the path has been already marked out before us.” Hebrew 12:1 TPT

 

You bring yourself with you wherever you go

 

2. Be present.

I remember in the middle of one of our myriads of moves, saying, “I’d give anything if it was six weeks from now.”  Then six weeks later I’d say the same thing, because Hello…LIFE! It’s OK to anticipate the future as long as you accept and engage in the present.

BE where your feet are. And remember, “… as your days, so shall your strength be.” Deut 33:25 ESV

 

3. Remember who God is.

You already know this but now is when you have to put it on auto-repeat in your head:

He will never leave me or forsake me. His heart for me is good. His plans and purposes for me will prevail.

Remember there is an ending. It may not be in sight, but your future is unfolding minute by minute and He goes before you. He makes the rough places smooth. He brings treasure in the darkness.The biggest lesson I’ve learned (and I learned it in the midst of a painful transition) is HE IS WHO HE SAYS HE IS!

Ask the Father, “Who do you want to be for me in this transition? What aspect of your fatherhood do you want to reveal to me?”

 

4. Where God guides, He provides.

I know, I know, it’s overused, but don’t blame me; Isaiah said it first. “Then you will call and the Lord will answer; You will cry for help, and He will say, ‘Here I am.'” Is 58:9. Our need is God’s opportunity. His name, Jehovah Jireh, means “Jehovah will see” (provide). If you’re having trouble believing it, look back and remember how He provided in the past. Thank Him for what He’s done and what He will do.

 

Transition is sneaky

The tricky part about transition is it can sneak up on you. When I was pregnant with my firstborn, my husband and I studied the Lamaze Method (no classes in our area back then; we just read the book) and we thought we were prepared for the stages of delivery.

Shocker: labor rarely goes by the book. I entered into transition while en route to the delivery room. That wasn’t part of the plan. Thankfully, Roger had the presence of mind to coach me through the breathing. Breathing is a good strategy for all kinds of transition.

 

Inhale. Exhale.

 

Breathe in: “God will not leave me or forsake me.”

Breathe out: “I can do all things through Christ”  

Breathe in: “God is my refuge and my strength,”

Breathe out: “a help in time of need.”

 

In the middle of transition you will need to repeatedly ask the Father to re-inspire you. Inhale Holy Spirit… exhale all that is not him. God’s breath is slow and steady. You don’t even have to strain to fill your lungs; just stay close enough to Him that you feel His breath on your face. It’s in HIM that we live and BREATHE and have our being.

God is a God of seasons, so if He says it’s the time for new beginnings, He will provide grace for the transition. Let go of every remnant of the past, embrace the scary/sacred of where you are presently, press in to the Father, and trust that He will provide.

 

Allow transition to do its work and you'll be transformed

 

*If you’re in the middle of transition, I’d love to hear your story and pray for you! 

 

 

 

 

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12 thoughts on “The Truth About New Beginnings and How Transition Can Make or Break You

  • March 21, 2019 at 5:45 pm
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    Love this devotion and it’s so true! Transition has always been hard for me but God has always been faithful every step of the way. Thank you for your words.

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    • March 21, 2019 at 6:16 pm
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      Thank YOU, Dana for commenting and following. He IS faithful!

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  • March 21, 2019 at 7:40 pm
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    My husband is retiring this April 4th. It will mean a big transition from a lifestyle we have enjoyed and lavished in to one that will mean less. I really have been walking close to God while preparing for this transition. I am scared yet, I know that He walks before me and with me and will provide for my needs–My husband is beyond excited to retire after 45 yrs at the same company. So much to be done that has gone undone. A new adventure and a new chapter to our lives. I am excited too, to be able to spend time with him and journey together. As long as I keep my focus on the Lord, I am fine. How precious this time with him will be. How precious this time of walking with the Lord will be. Our ministry will be in our lives as we remain faithful and reflect how He works in us and our relationship. And others will see and praise and glorify the Lord!

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    • March 21, 2019 at 8:16 pm
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      Amen that’s my prayer! Give glory to Him and say, “ Look what the Lord has done!”

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  • March 22, 2019 at 2:06 pm
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    Definitely I am in a season of transition, it’s a good season! God is leading,guiding , and speaking to me.

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    • March 22, 2019 at 2:17 pm
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      Love it!

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  • March 22, 2019 at 3:00 pm
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    Beautifully expressed. My family is transitioning in A LOT of ways this Spring and Summer, so I will be praying and breathing A LOT. Thank you!

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    • March 22, 2019 at 3:58 pm
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      Yes, being intentional and aware is so much better than just being swept along by our feelings, isn’t it?

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  • March 23, 2019 at 12:41 pm
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    Susan, such an awesome anointed Word. I am reading this 3/23/19. Just what I needed TODAY. I weep a lot lately with newness of our Lord’s revelations to and for me. The one statement that so stood out to me was, What aspect of fatherhood do you want to be n ME through this time of transition? ❤️❤️📖📖❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

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    • March 23, 2019 at 3:53 pm
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      This makes me so happy! 🤩🥰

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  • April 2, 2019 at 3:42 pm
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    Well written Susan. We are in a new season of transition on so many fronts. The points in your post are spot on ..timely reminders for me. I will share out on twitter too and hope others see this.

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    • April 2, 2019 at 3:43 pm
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      You’re the best! Praying for you in this transition time!

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